Blogmas Day 27 What Makes A Man?

Mirror, Man, Darkness, Light, Look, Meditation, Sadness
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(I understand that this isn’t a happy post, but I wrote this a few weeks ago and got the chance to post it).

What makes me a man? The simple answer is something that I feel from within, how my mind thinks a way and my body shows another thing. I spent years suppressing the way I felt about my body. To try to remove the pain within by attacking my body. Unlike what psychiatrists say not everyone self-harms for attention, in my case I blamed my mind and body for feeling male.

Growing the message was that you need to use your body if you ever want to be loved. At which point I disconnected from my body and more often than not, I was just flash, and bones with my soul closed in a cage. My brain would go blank and would act like what society or my partner at the time wanted me to act.

I ended up putting myself in a dark hole and no matter how much I tried to dig myself out I couldn’t till I came out. I remember when I reached out for help, I told them I feel like I’m a monster. When I came out, my battle was nowhere close to over. The hardest part is dealing with the monster I thought of myself and come out of the shadows as the real me.

Alex

6 thoughts on “Blogmas Day 27 What Makes A Man?

      1. Yes I understand but it’s still very sad. I love that you write about it and the feelings. It so comes out in your words. That is a gift. Your pain translates for the reader.

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