This book messed my mind in a way that I don’t know how to review. If you didn’t realise, I identify as a female to male transgender. I feel that in order to, evaluate this book I have to pick things from my own life. Before I came out every time it came to intimacy, I would numb my mind and do what I had to do to keep my partner back then happy because I was scared to end the relationship. I know how much it hurts to be rejected as yourself. It does get better when you are who you are meant to be. Misgendering is very painful. If you’re out as trans, you’re pushed by society to get hormones and surgery, but that’s not everybody’s needs as discussed in the book. The transition isn’t a one men’s path because we are all different. I was provided an ARC via NetGalley in exchange for an honest review. My rating is 3 out 5 stars.